For many, many people, getting married is one of the most important things they will ever do in the pursuit of happiness.
Wedding is a beautiful time and most often a turning point in everyone’s life. Marriage is also associated with a lot of planning. One wishes to look the best on their wedding, hence one of the things on people’s to-do list is to get permanent freedom from glasses before they say “I Do”.
For majority of people opting for Lasik before marriage, the desire to look good on the wedding day and to enter into the new phase of life bereft of all barriers is an enough motivating factor. Rarely there are also other cultural beliefs which force people to opt for laser vision correction before marriage. Sometimes in interiors of India (though not so much in cities), girls with glasses find it difficult to find a suitable alliance easily, the inlaws may ask for more dowry or even rarely there may be a misconception that if someone has glasses, they will pass it to the next generation as well!
Whatever is the reason for considering LASIK before marriage or after marriage, there is still no substitute for getting the procedure done at the right time with proper planning.
Let me tell you two real life examples from my Lasik Clinic at Centre for Lasik Surgery in Advanced Eye Hospital and Institute, Navi Mumbai, India.
Azhar, a 28 years old young man, was setting foot on the new chapter of his life. He was getting married! He is a smart young successful professional who works in Middle East. He had come to India to get married and to start his new life. There was only one hitch in his grand scheme of things. He had a minus 6 power in his eyes and he wanted to quickly get rid of his glasses before his wedding day. He thought the reception pictures may not look that good with his glasses. Azhar came for his pre-LASIK evaluation to the Center for LASIK surgery at the Advanced Eye Hospital and Institute (AEHI) in Navi Mumbai 3 days prior to his wedding.
His detailed pre-LASIK evaluation included tests like eye power checking with and without drops, corneal topography (corneal surface maps), corneal thickness, muscle balance, dry eye tests and retina check up. His tests and eye check-up revealed that he was suitable for all the different kinds of Laser vision correction procedures like LASIK, Femto LASIK and Relex Smile Lasik. He wanted the best for his eyes and opted for the bladeless and Flapless, newest generation advanced Relex SMILE Lasik.
But the question to ponder over, was the right time for the procedure. He wanted it on the same day or at the most next day so that he can be glass free, 3 days later, on his wedding day. A go getter who wants everything done quickly! But I dissuaded him from getting the SMILE Lasik done 3 days prior to his wedding and he finally got SMILE Lasik done 10 days after his wedding. There are reasons why I recommended this and I will tell you shortly.
On the other side was Piya who came for pre-LASIK evaluation and was found to be suitable for Relex SMILE Lasik. Many would-be brides would put laser eye surgery on their to-do list a few months before their wedding. Her reason for considering the laser vision correction was similar; she did not want to spoil her look on the wedding day by wearing glasses and hence wanted to get the freedom from glasses. She underwent Relex SMILE Lasik 42 days before her wedding day. Now when we are considering someone for LASIK, we are concerned not just with the pre-LASIK fitness but also the post-procedure care and how that may impact your life and the events associated.
Let’s try to understand the right time for the laser vision correction (LASIK) procedure prior or after your wedding-
- After the LASIK surgery
- Interference with Makeup: Some amount of care is required for example eye makeup, facials etc should not be done for 2-4 weeks after Lasik surgery. This can have some bearing for the would-be-brides. Most would-be- brides want to get a detailed pre-bridal face therapy a week to ten days prior to their wedding. So they have to remember that face therapy cannot be done for atleast 2 weeks after Relex SMILE Lasik and for 4 weeks after Femto or Custom LASIK.
- Exposure to dirt: No dust or dirt or water should enter the eye for 2-3 weeks – All the running around that needs to be done prior to the wedding for invitations, shopping etc need to be considered while planning a LASIK before wedding.
- Eyecare: No eye rubbing for 2-3 weeks even if one wants to cry!
- Eyecare with medicines: Eye drops are to be instilled every few hours in first week and then 2-3 times a day for a few weeks.
- Honeymoon: If you are intending to go for an exotic honeymoon to a beach or a nice resort- you cannot swim for 2-3 weeks after Relex Smile Lasik or 4 weeks after Femto or Custom Lasik.
For a person who is getting married, there are way too many things to look after and take care of. In the middle of all that it is very easy to ignore your eye and not give it the required proper care. So it is better to space the procedure and plan it at least a month before the wedding day. Additionally prior to the wedding many things like shopping, invitations, pre-bridal dress trials etc need to be taken care of. Hence it is my recommendation – It is better for your own sanity to plan the laser vision correction procedure a few months prior to the big day.
About the author:
Dr Vandana Jain is a renowned Cornea and Lasik Surgeon heading the Centre for Lasik Surgery at Advanced Eye Hospital & Institute, Navi Mumbai, India. She is one of the best Lasik surgeons in India and is an expert in Pre-Lasik tests, Corneal evaluation pre Lasik and has done more than 5000 Lasik surgeries in her career spanning more than 12 years. At her centre, which is the best Lasik surgery centre in western India, she offers counsel and advice for Custom Lasik,Femto Lasik, Relex Smile Lasik
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